feat: enforce singleton discovery strategy when using DS `builtin_local` backend

Fixes https://emqx.atlassian.net/browse/EMQX-12493

changes/ce/feat-13250.en.md

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+Added a new `cluster.discovery_strategy` value: `singleton`.  By choosing this option, there will be effectively no clustering, and the node will reject connection attempts to and from other nodes.